September 25, 2008

Tips For Lady To Avoid Raped Case

Nowadays, rap cases are happening everyday. As per what experts survey and analysis, there are approximately average 3-6 of rapping cases in a day, it's very serious issues.Therefore, ladies must learn some simple life tips to avoid from being victim in rapping case.

Ladies, you can simply learn some simple but useful tips over here.

This is definitely the instruction you have been looking for ladies. How to avoid being raped. I received this from my friend via email. I found this very useful tips for ladies especially your daughter, girlfriend, wife, mother and friends. So here I'm going to share this precaution, awareness about how to avoid being raped (Tips are quoted and advised by the jailed rapers themselves!) :

Thoughts Through a Rapist’s Eyes
This is important information for females of ALL ages. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly . Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone , searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5:00a.m. and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots . Number two: is office parking lots/garages. Number three: is public restrooms.

6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas , or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: ‘I can’t believe it is so cold out here,’ ‘we’re in for a bad winter.’ Now you’ve seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you , hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back.
Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes) , yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you , you can’t beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the
arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he’s out of there.

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible . The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!

Useful Life Tips To Avoid Rap Incident Happened
You may feel a little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

1) Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2) Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans . If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM . Toss it away from you….chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3) If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4) Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

6) A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or parking garage:

a) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

b) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c) Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6) ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7) If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8) As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked ‘for help’ into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9) Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her ‘Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.’

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, ‘We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.’ He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby’s cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it , but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby’s cries outside their doors when they’re home alone at night.

My Thoughts

When rappists intent to do something bad to you, they won't take care of you. Ladies, please be careful when going out alone. If possible, don't go out alone at night, don't ever give chances to rappists to action. I would like to tell every gentlemen, please take care of your love one! By sharing this tips, my intention is to share with everyone no matter ladies or gentlemen, you can simply copy this life tips and put it in your blog (I would appreciate if you give me an link back), or send it to your friends and family. I hope these life tips help everyone!

September 22, 2008

Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex - Part 2

In Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex - Part 1, I had shared 5 tips on Mistakes that women make when having sex, so I'll continue for the part 2 :

6) Letting Your Long Hair Fall On His Face
- Men need air, they breathe. So please be intelligent a little bit. Men will feel itchy and the feel will be gone.

7) Jumping On His Hips Too Hard
- A man is not a horse so please take it easy unless you got a big booty that can take care of the landing.

8) Screaming Too Loud When You Cum
- Please not to shout or scream too loud. It's not a war or something else, do you want to get caught by parents or just love to see jumping trough the window butt naked.

9) Keep Yourself Clean
- Everyone knows that fish has a smell. But we don't have to be 20 smelling it when you take the drawls off. Please warn if you haven't freshened up. Men aren't the only ones who sweat. And we sure don't want you smelling like you work at a fish market either. No man wants to eat off a dirty plate.

My Thoughts

I would say some of the tips can be applied on men as well. Ladies, please don't be too sensitive on this issues, these are some life tips for having a romantic sex with husband or boyfriend. Sex is for both parties, please care of each other when having sex to build up a romantic life!

September 19, 2008

Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex - Part 1

Sex between a couple is very normal and romantic exercise, women are sensitive but men too. There are some life tips about sex for couple, especially for women :

1) Being Passive
- Don't let him undress you and himself. Just help him a little bit, like making the first step. It won't hurt. One more thing, just cause we are men it doesn't mean that we must do all the work.

2) Wearing Jeans Or Tight Pants
- It takes time to take off these kinds of clothes. Every second counts. Remember one thing: the more time you got, the more rounds you got. And the more rounds you got, the more you are satisfied. Be smart.

3) Going Down Halfway
- Once you start going down, don't stop at the belly button or around it. Keep going or just don't go below the neck at all.

4) Moaning Like A Runner Who Needs Air
- Better moan with style girl cause men love to make fun of girls who can't moan like movie stars (Halle Berry, Whitney Houston). Try not to make too much noise when you exhale.

5) Scratching His Back
- We don't need no autographs, girls. It does not feel good at all! Depending on the length of the nails, and how deep u dig the nail in our backs, they leave permanent marks. So keep your nails in your pockets, please. If you feel the need to scratch a brother's back, either grip the hell out of the sheets, or the headboard

My Thoughts

Sex is for both women and men, not individual party, both parties have to respect and appreciate each other. I'm not helping any side, but I'm just sharing about my thoughts, perhaps there'll be an article about mistakes for men in future. Take Care To Your Love One!

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September 9, 2008

16 Tips About Sex

You've got her as far as your bedroom. What could possibly go wrong now? Many things, read these 16 life tips about sex and find out why she never phoned or returned your calls.

1) Not shaving
- Like love, stubble hurts. When you drag your chin across her face or thighs, she might not be moaning from pleasure, but from pain.

2) Blowing in her ear
- There's a big difference between erotic whispering in someone's ear and huffing and puffing as if you want to blow the house down.

3) Twiddling her nipples
- Nipples are sensitive and should be treated gently. They should not be treated like radio dials. AND BITING HER NIPPLES IS JUST NOT ON EITHER!!!!! A BIG NO NO!

4) Ignoring the rest of her body
- A woman is made up of more than two breasts and a vagina. Pay attention to the rest of her. · Not disposing of used condoms. This is the responsibility of the person who wore it.

5) Not kissing first
- Foreplay starts with passionate kissing. Don't skip this part - she will feel neglected by your apparent haste. But under all circumstances make sure that your mouth is kissing-friendly.

6) Attacking the clitoris
- Be gentle and don't use direct pressure. This could be both uncomfortable and painful. AND... IF U DON'T KNOW HOW TO MAKE GOOD USE OF YOUR FINGERS, DON'T USE IT AT ALL!!!

7) Stopping for a break
- Women cannot pick up where they left off. In this respect they are different from men. If you stop, she will go back to square one very quickly.

8) Taking your pants off first
- There are few things less attractive than a man in only socks, a shirt and underpants.

9) Going too fast
- Remember this is not an Olympic event. There is no need for you to pump away like a hydraulic power tool. Build up slowly - and you both might have more fun.

10) Asking if she has come
- You should be able to tell, shouldn't you? If you can't, assume that she hasn't.

11) Nudging her head down
- All women hate this. There is an element of desperation involved here when men do this. For women, it's a very short step from being dragged to a cave by the hair. If both of you enjoy oral sex, this will happen by itself. Don't involve an element of force.

12) Taking pictures
- Her first thought will be "Who do you want to show them to?"

13) Giving love bites
- Gentle suction on the sides of the neck can be highly erotic, but love bites can be painful and lead to infections. Who wants to wear scarves and polo necks in the middle of the summer?

14) Squashing her
- Just remember that most men weigh more than women do. If you lie too heavily on her, she might stop breathing.

15) Talking dirty
- This might make you sound like a desperate sex caller on a payline. Listen to her first - if she doesn't talk dirty, don't.
16) Don't thank a woman for having sex with you
- It makes you sound desperate and like a charity case. She won't be back for more.

My Thoughts

Sex is for both parties. Don't love ladies because of Sex! This is the big mistake that why a couple break. Ladies are used to LOVE but not for SEX! Important message for gentlemen, never force your girlfriend to have sex or else you'll get punished by God!

September 5, 2008

5 Tips on How To Chase A Girl

Chasing a girl that you like is not easy, but not difficult as you think too. With my experience and opinions from my friends, I can simply spot out a few tips on How To Chase A Girl. To chase a girl you like, you can't be too straight and you might scared her. You might need to show her how good are you, what is your advantage, what is your favorite, what you like and don't like and etc. Of course, you must try to understand all about her as well.

There are a few life tips on How to Chase A Girl that you like :

1) Get to know her well
- Before you are ready to chase a girl you like, try to know her well. How to know her well? There are many ways to know more about her, you can ask her friends about her, follow her and know what her favorite food, chat with her like an normal friend, and etc. If you know her well, it's easy to chase her.

2) Humor
- This is a very important to cause the girl has good feel on you. Many girls also like humor guy. You must learn to be humor, make joke, or make funny in front of the girl. But don't over do it, you can make the girl thinks that you are crazy.

3) Gift
- Give them a gift on every important festival or day. Valentine Day, Christmas Day is a must. This shows her that you have good feel on her too. If she has good feel on you too, I believe she will give you a gift in return.

4) Date Her Out
- Try to ask her for a date, you can just ask her for a dinner or celebration in special day. If she rejects you, you can try to ask her whether is it ok that both sides to ask a friend to go out together because sometimes she is shy to go out alone with you.

5) Chit Chat And Ask
- When you are chit chatting with her, chat like a normal friend, don't let her know that you are going to chase her, if not she will ignore you. Ask anything you want, you can ask questions like "What do you like to do when you free?", "What you like to eat?", "Which country do you like to go?" ... Of course you have to tell her more about you as well, don't just ask without tell, she will feel stress or tension to chat with you.

My Thoughts

Chasing a girl that you like is a very good action, but you have to use the correct way to get her to have good feel on you first. Remember, patient is the key!

September 4, 2008

8 Ways To Scare Telemarketer

Do you have the experience that receiving calls from telemarketer in your life? I've faced few times and my friends too. My friend received an email and share this with me, he has tried out the tips that given in the email, it's worked!

Who is telemarketer? Telemarketer is those people who call you to sell their products or services. I've received few calls in the past few days, I did pass the call to my friend, he helped me to entertain them. I've found few ways to scare the telemarketer, some of them are what my friends taught me, 8 life tips :

1) Ask him to speak slowly
- Ask the telemarketer to speak as slow as he can, tell him that you want to write down every word he says. I believe that 80% of telemarketer will scare of you, because they don't want to leave any evidence for you in case you want to sue him (If anything happen)

2) Greeting
- When he tell you his name, you greet him as your old friends :"Hei Andy, long time no see ar! You still alive ar? I thought you moved to UK with your family already? How are you recently ??"
I believe that he might get stunned and think when you know him.

3) Request To Marry
- After he promotes his products and services, ask him/her to marry you before you can sign up the services or buy the products.

4) Ask
- Everytime telemarketer calling, they will ask you :"Are you Ah Beng?". Why always they ask but we don't ask? Don't give them chances to ask, so you must ask them first. Ask them :"What's your name? Where you stay? Where's your company located? How long you've been working there?". Ask him until he gives up.

5) Jokes
- If he ask you :"Are you Ah Beng?", you act as his friend and say :" Don't play la Ah Ching, I know is you la. Eh how are you? How's your brother? His leg got broken or not?"

6) Ask for dating
- After he/she promote his/her products or services, tell him/her you don't have boyfriend/girlfriend, ask him/her whether can be your girlfriend or boyfriend or not?

7) Bull Shit
- If he ask you :" How are you?". You just answer him with bull shit :"So far so good lar, my dog born a few puppies, do you want one or two? Haih, my gold fish dead because my cat eat them. My wife don't want me, my car stolen, my house burned last night! My ...." Bull until he gives up.

8) Ask for phone number
- Ask him/her to give you his/her phone number/home number, so that you can date him/her out in future. He/she will try to give you his/her company number, say you only want their handphone number or home number. Tell him/her that you will listen what he/she said if he/she gives you his/her phone number to you, otherwise, say :"Bye Bye!"
My Thoughts
There are a lot of telemarketers calling everyday out there, they get our contact number from somewhere and hope you will be one of their customer. 99% of the marketers listen what you said with the above 8 ways, I gurantee that they will give up to promote their products or services.